It's not who I am underneath but what I do that defines me.

On Wednesday during the transit strike I went to Commerce Bank at 7pm to get documents notarized so I could refinance a couple of my condos in Park City. The notary was a very pretty, young customer service rep. At first she didn't act very impressed possibly because I rode my skateboard to get to the bank. So I started to tell her about www.cassworld.com and said it was a good way to get more customers for Commerce Bank. She brought up CassWorld.com on her desktop and checked out the "Party Photos." She then said her girlfriend just broke up with a guy after 6 years of dating. She dumped him because he was just focusing on his career and not moving towards marriage. She said her friend was 27, beautiful, had a great tech job on Wall Street, was a great cook, and that I should meet her so I can introduce her around at cool parties. First, based on her description - What are the chances that her girlfriend has some kind of flaw like a harelip? Second - How long should a marriage minded woman stay in a relationship before she dumps her ambivalent boyfriend?